I don’t understand kids these days. Scratch that, I don’t understand teenage girls who are in such a rush to grow up. I mean honestly, 13 year old girls, look more like they are 30 nowadays. So many things I don’t understand:
1. Why the hell are you wearing 7 inch pumps to parties?
2. Why are you drowning your skin in 70 pounds of makeup?
3. What are you trying to accomplish by flicking people off in your pictures?
4. What the hell are you doing wearing acrylic nails?
5. Why the HELL are you shopping at forever 21, and fitting yourself in the shortest, and tightest of dresses?
You are ONLY 13. There is no reason for you to do all these things to yourself at such a young age. For one wearing such high heels that you can barely walk in at such a young age will screw over your back in the long run. I’ll be honest, I myself didn’t even start wearing heels till i was about 20, and i’m not talking about freaking 10 inch heels, i’m talking about barely 4 inch heels, that I sometimes even struggle to walk in.
MAKEUP is another huge problem. Why the HELL are you caking your skin with so many chemicals at such a young age? In the long run, you will have wrinkles by the time you are 22. I just BARELY started wearing eyeliner when i was 14, and even when i turned 18 and i began to wear coverup and mascara, i NEVER TILL THIS DAY, have ever caked my face in makeup. When you youngins do it, it doesn’t suit you at all, it makes you look odd.
PICTURES. Why are you flicking off the camera? What did that camera or the person that is even looking at the picture ever do to you to deserve such an obscene sign. It doesn’t make you look, cool, or sexy, it makes you look like a complete idiot quite frankly.
FAKE NAILS. Really girls? Really? Might I remind you that you are still VERY young. Even me at 21, i have NEVER put on fake nails EVER in my life, nor do I plan to. And mind you that acrylic glue DESTROYS your nailbeds like its nobodies buisness.
and last but not least the clothes you girls wear. Honestly, you are sooo young, dressing like a complete skank when you are only 13, isn’t going to get you anywhere. Sure you’ll get the boys you want, but you won’t be getting them for the right reason. They’ll see you, talk to you, use you, and toss you aside, and that will be a never ending circle for you. I mean.. unless thats what you want.
The point is, i’m not trying to be mean, i’m just being honest. Its true. You girls really need to slow down on the growing up, trust me your day will come when you can do all of that, but you are in such a hurry to grow up its almost as if you don’t even really live your life as a 13 year old when you are 13. More like a 30 year old in a 13 year olds body.
To be quite honest as cliche as this may sound, I blame the media for this hurry to grow up. From a very young age, the media drills into these little girls heads a certain image they need to live up to as females, and as the ages climb from lets say about possibly 7-13, girls are surrounded by all this bogus crap, and when they hit the teen years, they are already so insecure about themselves, that they feel the need to live up to that image, and wear weapons as heels, and damage their nails, their skin, and all together their self image. This needs to be put to a stop. Its ridiculous.
Parents also play a big role in this. Girls can see all these things in the media, and believe thats what they have to live up to, but its up to the parents to make the girls understand that what they see in the media is all bullshit, nobody really looks like that in real life. These are the things that little girls see, that make them feel so down on themselves, which leads them down this ridiculous path of feeling the need to be in a rush to grow up, and feel the need that they need to be “sexy” and “hot” when they are only 13.
Teen years are hard, nobody said its easy, but you girls need to try hard and not succumb to what the media portrays, but be happy with what you have, and in due time, even when the time comes to be able to do all these things, you can backup and take a look at yourself and know that you don’t need it.
(but its never okay to flick off the camera, just saying.)
(and don’t listen to what boys tell you. boys are stupid :p)